Seeking Co-housing or intentional neighborhood in SW Washington

I am a life-long communitarian and expert permaculturist, master gardener and orchardist with a new interest in keeping AZ beehives. My partner, teenage daughter and I moved to the Pacific Northwest three years ago to find or found our "forever community."

What I'm Seeking
Open to helping a community that's forming (joining as a member when it's established)
What I'm Seeking (tell us more...)
We are looking for a cohousing scenario that would ideally allow us to build our own home to reduce cost, and to have enough land (individually and/or collectively) to share food production, permaculture, collective projects, and seasonal celebrations among multiple households. We would like to be close enough to a major city to allow my partner and daughter to commute for work and school with less effort, but out-of-town enough to have privacy, quiet, and space to grow food. Vancouver to Olympia preferred.
Where Are You Located?
Vancouver, WA